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The
sizzling, if tragic, love story of James and Kris is worth
an editorial.
After
all, we are a nation of voyeurs - who peep into the hole to
watch the rise and fall of our idols - the icons of our thoughts,
the objects of our unspoken desires.
In
truth, the fault lies both ways - for celebrities of fame
and fortune - are in a manner of speaking - exhibitionists
who delight in being watched in an aquarium and get the high
of being talked about and admired.
Kris
Cojuangco-Aquino, is no exception. A product of two large
political families and daughter of a martyr hero and a former
lady president, Kris is a passable actress but winsome TV
hostess - with a tremendous hold on the consumer buying habits
of Filipinos. When Kris endorses a product - there has been
scientific proof that sales of the products go up.
The
consistency of this phenomenon has made Kris Aquino, aside
from perhaps Megastar Sharon Cuneta and actor Aga Mulach,
the best product endorser in town.
Each
endorsement is worth millions of pesos - enough for the porcelain-white
Ateneo graduate - to quit working today and still be able
to support herself and the lives of one more generation of
her children in the future.
Her
husband James Yap, is the reigning MVP (Most Valuable Player)
of the PBA - in a sport that is the national obsession of
many Filipinos - men and women - alike. He has been making
his own product endorsements and was on his way to being a
star endorser in his own right. Menfolk try to copy his fascinating
basketball shots and women adore his clean, good-boy looks.
He is a role model for many.
James
and Kris' young marriage is on the rocks. The alleged third
party is a 24-year-old charming receptionist of a famous Beauty
Enhancing Shop called Belo (after owner Vicky Belo) - interestingly
named "Hope" who has confirmed her 10-month affair
(Kris is 7-months pregnant) with the famous cager. How a "receptionist"
would do the facials (every Monday) of the cage superstar
inside a small cubicle had suggested more than just lewd variations
of a Belo the belt job (pun invented) - is one for the gossipy
tabloids.
The
emotional damage to both is obviously devastating - with millions
ogling over the new live soap opera with a possible "collateral
damage" of a still born baby, whose heart beat had weakened
last week while the over-stressed Kris was hospitalized at
the Makati Medical Center.
The
raging controversy has cost Kris much - by bidding temporary
goodbye to the medium that made her - television. It has cost
James Yap, the slippery basketball star, a slot in the National
Team of the Philippines (gunning for an Olympic stint next
year) because the coaching staff is fearful - the whole brouhaha
would affect the Ilonggo cager's sports savvy and stamina.
It
remains to be seen - whether the drawing capacity for product
endorsement for Kris and James - will be negatively affected
by the dangerous liaison of threesome is a crowd - after the
dust will settle. Will Kris' drawing power on TV and movies
still be super - if as a martyr-wife, she does not act bravely
in the face of some mounting evidence of James' infidelity?
Does the Pinoy truly love the "underdog?"
In
fairness, Kris in her foxhole, had found refuge in her God
- as there "are no atheists inside the war foxholes."
Will she come out whole out of this debilitating episode -
physically and psychologically? Will their marriage ever be
the same again?
Ninoy
Aquino, a noted doting father, would have raged over the many
controversies Kris had drawn to her life. Maybe it's time
this once upon a time 6-year old campaigner of Ninoy (against
Marcos) should learn a few lessons from the many mines that
had exploded her way during her walk in life.
With
her power of persuasion and hold of the public's attention
- Kris should use the gift of charisma to change herself into
a positive role model for society. Change her footloose, tactless
way of living. Be a moral force to influence her believers
to lead better lives.
She
had thrived on the limelight - and would probably die early
without it. Yet, she used this to make a spectacle of her
dirty linen - mistaking transparency for propriety especially
in her sordid affairs of committed or married men - to recall
an alleged few - Robin Padilla, Alvin Patrimonio, Philip Salvador
and Joey Marquez. Hers is an image of being challenged neurotically
by the "unavailable" - hunks of men that at one
time brother Noynoy did not speak to Kris for months.
Like
a moth burned by the fire, Kris invites controversy to explode
in the public eye - then sheds tears in public that people
are unfair and other networks are using the controversy to
upset her. But alas, Miss Kris, this is the stage that made
her and she cannot be selective about when the curtains should
open and fall - when it comes to her affairs. She is a star
- and even the brand of Kris' handkerchief will be talked
about - to stretch our point elastically.
At
35 and James at 26, this is a May-December affair - which
Kris chose. Many people opine there is a wide disparity between
their age, social class and intelligence. Others say Kris
just wanted a James Yap as her trophy - one as popular as
she is that she can show around and titillate both men and
women alike with jealousy or adulation. But she says, that
is a choice of her heart - so be it.
But
with great fame and fortune also comes great responsibility
to the viewing public. Henceforth, it might be best for all
that a Kris Aquino thinks ten times before she acts or speaks
in public.
Kris
owes this to an impressionable public who will make their
idols a role model - and may think that what they do is always
on the side of the right - or at least make shades of gray
of what are patently black.
Kris
has this one chance in this new battle - where the public
is clearly on her side - to use this momentum of sympathy
to build a new image of wholesomeness, integrity and fortitude.
That
would make Ninoy smile in his grave.
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